depression: six of one, half-dozen of the other?

10377998_10152361766448129_5538421471071534094_nLydia at Don’t Drink and Don’t Drive takes a thoughtful shot at a subject near and dear to my heart and mind: depression as a treatable illness for a chosen few, as opposed to one that is simply a character defect for most. Depending on who one talks to in AA, it is one or the other, but who you open up to and how certainly depends whether you happen to be in a discussion meeting or hunched over a cup of coffee with a fellow struggler.

And of course, Lydia — a staunch supporter of AA — had me at:

As I hope we all know, AA is not an inherently safe place, and people can find someone to say just about anything there.

That being said, it’s good to keep in mind that we’re all a bunch of pros, when it comes right down to where the rubber meets the road, as Lydia points out:

Alcoholics can and do use all of these to manipulate people including doctors and therapists.  They can and do use all of these things to manipulate the people in their lives.  They can and do use these things to avoid sobriety, to avoid work, to obtain drugs, to get or avoid attention.

As one who has been on various anti-depressants much of my life, I would be the first to say I’d rather not take them. I’ve tried. It hasn’t worked too well for me, so this is simply something I’m pretty much resigned to. But she also brings up a question I’ve kicked around for years and have found no satisfactory response:

So, to answer the question, is there a line between the illness and the character defect?  I think there is, but it’s a dotted line, not a solid line (my emphasis – gw).  A person who has the mental illness can still suffer from the character defect, and probably does, as we all do to some degree.  It may be harder for that person to deal with the character defect.

I have found that for me there are seasons when I tend to feel more strongly that depression is a character defect that can be addressed through spiritual, psychological and emotional strategies. Then there are those times when I am convinced beyond any doubt that I must simply resign myself to this state of mind and heart.

Read all of Lydia’s post. Good stuff.

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I believe chocolate in virtually any configuration is the finest dessert in the history of mankind. I believe my wife is the sexiest woman in the world. I believe modern capitalism will never be replaced by a different -- or better -- form of economics. I believe in clutch hitting in baseball. I believe the Kimber 1911 .45 ACP is the finest handgun ever made in America. I believe the Mossberg Flex 500 pump-action 12 gauge shotgun is the best home defense ever made in America. I believe Tom Waits is the best song writer of my generation. I believe unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. I believe in equality for everyone, except reporters and photographers. As CS Lewis once beautifully wrote, I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else. I believe that, on balance, Christianity has done more good for humans than bad. I believe it is better to tell the truth than a lie. I believe it is better to be free than to be a slave. I believe it is better to know than to be ignorant. And I believe if I yell at the TV during a Colts game, they will play better.

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